Another Update

I am going to keep this short because my day alone is rapidly disappearing.  Things seem to be beginning to improve.  Dh finally got in to see our doctor yesterday.  She was wonderful and I feel like we are finally on our way to dealing with his depression.  I think he felt a lot better about it, too.  We may have more  of a fertility struggle than we though but at least we are more aware of what is happening.  Our doctor's first priority is to get Dh sleeping (he is often awake much of the night and when he does sleep, he has terrible dreams).  The next step will be conquering the depression and then dealing with his lack of eating.  I think she is thinking that dealing with the sleeping with improve the other things right away.  In the name of trying to improve his sleep, one thing we are planning this weekend is to transition Pk's bed.  She has a convertible crib and we are thinking of turning it into a daybed.  That way, she can get out of bed and come to us in the night if she needs us and we don't have to listen for her through the monitor (which really keeps both of us awake).  The only challenge will be remembering to put the baby gate up (we are going to section things off so that she can come out of her room and into ours but can't access anywhere else - I can't imagine what I would find in the morning if she got into the kitchen without me).

To those of you who have been praying, I can't thank you enough.  The Power of a Praying Wife has really helped but most of all, it has been wonderful to feel like I am not alone.